Thursday, March 10, 2011

Teacher's compliments made my day!

Today Sissy's teacher came out and she is so awesome I love her. We worked with Sissy for an hour assessing her for her KCKids program! She was doing so well, could do almost everything she asked her to do but we noticed she took direction so well and much better from me! So I started to ask and explain the tasks to her instead of her teacher and it was amazing how well she did. Her teacher said I know her so well and know how to work with her so very well, it is great. It made my day, it just really did, I feel so great this week, it makes all of this hard work and the oh so very frustrating times all worth it. This is where the rewards all come out in the journey of parenting and parenting a child that has come from where she has. I love this little girl, she is my life and I will forever try to do my best to help her be all she can be!
I wanted to also document something from yesterdays visit with the baby and her birth father, that he was late to his visit! We actually thought he was not coming, he is never late. The rules are the birth parents have to be there early and cannot be even one minute late but his supervising worker allowed him 5 minutes and as we were just getting ready to go and I was so happy, he came walking up, just so cool like whatever I have never been late, there is a first for everything he says! Ugh, grrr! :( I am afraid that this guy who usually supervises is allowing him too many breaks and it makes me wonder what he is actually documenting  from these visits, like that the baby doesn't like him, has no bond to him, just goes to play and eat snack, never hugs or kisses him, doesn't even say hi to him or bye, you know the reality of it all! And her birth father claimed he taught her to say "please help" a two word phrase, which I know she cannot say! She is talking a lot and repeating a lot but her only two words she now says as of yesterday is "thank you". I have only gotten her to say "please", she doesn't say "help" at all! This man is a huge lier, he lies about everything let me tell you! It is scary how he thinks and what he does, this man is not to be trusted!!
Now onto to court tomorrow, prayers, prayers for answers and to not let this man get anything good!

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